I asked Laura to share Brent’s story with us as part of our Illinois Donor Diaries. Please check out the entry below.
Several years ago a remarkable person entered my life, Brent Shryock. During our friendship, I learned so much from him. Brent was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis (CF), when he was a child. I learned about all the struggles he and his family had. Taking labs and making periodic visits to the doctors and hospitals were expected for the rest of his life. At age 22, Brent had a bilateral lung transplant. Through the hopes and prayers of his family and friends, the transplant was successful.
Over the next year, Brent was doing things he had never dreamed of. He could finally breathe without a machine. During our time together, we were doing something new everyday. We had so many great adventures from going to Six Flags St. Louis to visiting the local parks and zoos.
In October 2007, Brent was having complications and returned to the hospital where he had his transplant. Initially the doctors thought he had pneumonia, but his health quickly declined. Brent’s mother and I took turns keeping him company during his long hospital stay. Seeing his health worsen was very devastating; so many thoughts went through my mind, especially that of helplessness. His body was rejecting his new lungs and he was put back on the transplant waiting list. Soon enough, Brent became unconscious and didn’t realize his life was depending on another transplant.
I wasn’t there through his first transplant but I was going to stay by his side through the second. Weeks went by; his body would get worse and then better, yet no matches. It came to the point where all of Brent’s other organs were deteriorating. We were going to lose him. His mother told me they were going to call up the family to say their goodbyes before they let him go. It was the worst news to hear because he was such a strong man and I seriously thought that he would pull through. The family came in to speak to him; I watched his pulse go down to zero. He was gone.
Even though Brent’s body ultimately rejected the new lungs, the transplant saved his life. During the year that he had his new lungs; Brent accepted his faith and was able to experience what true love really is. Experiencing life with Brent also changed my life for the better. He led me into the right direction and there is not one day that goes by without thinking of him and the impact he has had in my life. While I wish another donor would have come at the right time for Brent, I know that he is still with me in spirit.
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